Healthy Living



Today’s tech­nol­ogy has “gifted” us with the abil­ity to talk while we drive, Skype while we type, and chat with any­one almost any­where on phones that fit in our pockets.

Have these mod­ern con­ve­niences dis­tanced us from our true inner voice? What does he or she have to say about this? Have you stopped to listen?

I remem­ber the first time I spent 24 hours in silence about 7 years ago. I set out with the inten­tion to “unplug” from the out­side world, includ­ing my lap­top, cell­phone, tele­vi­sion, music, and most of all, speak­ing. At first, I resisted this prac­tice, and at the same time, there was a sub­tle voice inside of me that was beg­ging for it.

For the first few hours of my day, I felt anx­ious, scat­tered, and all I wanted to do was com­plete my morn­ing rit­ual of check­ing my email, mak­ing a phone call, or ban­ter­ing with my house­mate. Still, I had a feel­ing there was some­thing to be learned in this unfa­mil­iar silence.

Even­tu­ally, the men­tal chat­ter began to quell, and my thoughts became more clear and focused. A sense of calm washed over me, and I sud­denly felt like I had more room to breath. As I lis­tened in the silence, I heard clear insights about what I needed to do to be health­ier and more ful­filled in my life. I wrote, lis­tened, and wrote some more, and was sur­prised by how much infor­ma­tion was right there inside of me all along, just wait­ing to be heard.

I’ve taken many “Silent Days” since then, and occa­sion­ally “Silent Weeks”. I still resist at times, or find myself caught up in what I think I “have to do”. But I now real­ize that it’s usu­ally those times when I need to go inward more than ever. Each time I do this, I feel refreshed, inspired, and brim­ming with new ideas. I some­times say that I feel like a “new” woman, but I’m actu­ally just more con­nected to the woman I am.

So whether you have a full day, an after­noon, or even an hour, I encour­age you to “unplug” from daily dis­trac­tions, and open up to your own inner wis­dom. You are the only one who truly knows what you need to do to be happy and healthy.

Are you listening?

 

*Photo above: My sleepy home­town of Rock­wood, Maine (taken by my tal­ented Mum).

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Nature’s Reset Button

July 15, 2010

Tiger Lilly (Eastern Washington)I can’t think of any­thing more reju­ve­nat­ing than the scent of Pon­derosa Pine, and sweep­ing views of snow-capped peaks and wild­flow­ers.  This always hits a reset but­ton for me.  Sud­denly, my sleep falls into a dif­fer­ent rhythm, syn­chro­nized with the rise and fall of the sun.  The flick­er­ing and hum­ming of elec­tri­cal appli­ances no longer trick my mind into think­ing I should be “doing some­thing”.  I am lulled.

Whether it’s an overnight out­ing, or a walk in the park, I highly rec­om­mend step­ping out into nature when­ever pos­si­ble.  Some­times it takes get­ting out­side of daily lives to become more con­nected to who we are.

It may sound like very dif­fer­ent worlds col­lid­ing, but I per­son­ally believe health and finances are two sides of the same coin (so-to-speak).…

Regard­less of whether you are man­ag­ing five dol­lars or five mil­lion dol­lars, I find the prac­tice of dis­trib­ut­ing and gen­er­at­ing money (cur­rency) is no dif­fer­ent than dis­trib­ut­ing and gen­er­at­ing our own “Qi” (life force).

Learn­ing to prac­tice mind­ful­ness around our finances and devel­op­ing a sys­tem that feels com­fort­able, can lead to a sense of ground­ing, con­sol­i­da­tion, and con­fi­dence in other aspects of life. It can also lead to improved phys­i­cal and emo­tional health– and maybe even a lit­tle more  money in your pocket…

I owe a lot of this real­iza­tion to Cather­ine Keir, a health-care prac­ti­tioner and a pro­fes­sional book­keeper (yes, the two can go hand-in-hand) who blends finan­cial orga­ni­za­tion with sup­port­ive reflec­tion and coun­sel­ing.  Her approach is based pri­mar­ily on “Voice Dia­logue”, which is a unique method of coun­sel­ing that explores dif­fer­ent aspects of the self, to resolve inner con­flicts and dis­cover your per­sonal strengths.

Imag­ine hav­ing some­one to sup­port your deeper growth, all while bal­anc­ing your check­book or learn­ing to glide through Quick­books like a pro.  Of course, she can also single-handedly trans­form your pile of bank state­ments and ledgers into a neat and tidy pack­age, and will “teach you to fish” as much (or as lit­tle) as you would like.

After one such after­noon of Quick­books train­ing (cou­pled with a spon­ta­neous Voice Dia­logue ses­sion), I said to her, “This is so much more than just book­keep­ing.”  She replied matter-of-factly, “Of course it is.  It’s about growth.”

For more infor­ma­tion about Cather­ine Keir’s book­keep­ing and/or Voice Dia­logue ser­vices, call (206) 818‑0397 or email catkeir@q.com.